Oh my dear lord.
I fully understand that a few of you are upset and hurt deeply by Dotty’s actions, but please do not vent it on here. Blogging is a very easy thing to get lost in and it becomes a whole new world to us. A safe one, where we can feel free to blog our inner most thoughts and feelings without being laughed at or judged.

Instead of belittling her about not speaking to you all sooner, why not take note of what she has been saying in her blog posts. I am extremely close to my family, sometimes I feel a bit too close infact. Although I find it easy talking to them sometimes it can be very difficult admitting to them that you have a problem when you know the angst and pain it will cause them, therefore I turn to my blog too, or my ‘virtual’ friends. But that doesn’t mean that I love my family any less.

I don’t see Dotty’s plight as one of pity, I see it as brave and a cry for HELP, so rather than sit there and vent your frustrations like this go to her and help her. Even though she may reject it now, please don’t give up on her. And Dotty, I’m sorry if you think I am interfeering (I don’t know the kind of relationship you have with these people) and tell me to shut up if you think I am! But that’s not my intentions. I just want you to get the help and support you deserve.

Take care sweet thing. xXx

Facinating reply.
Note comment 12.
How did the closure of the blog land you in hospital?
Confused?
If it was about closing blog, then perhaps an apology is due to all your Friends on here for worrying and upsetting them with such a misleading comment, and, are you saying this… http://www.blipfoto.com/view.php?id=470834&month=2&year=2010
was an unfortunate coincidence.
You are trying the patience and testing the love of those few of us that really know you, the flesh and bones bit, not the blogger. You have told us you want honesty, yet you can’t be honest with us.
Close your laptop, grab your camera, take a look around you and realise just how lucky you are.

Well its nice to see that you have a massive following of support. It would have been nice to know first hand wat was happening but I’m quite numb that you have chosen to share your life with strangers and not with the one person who went through yrs of torment alone with no help and no support and came through fighting and all the better for it. I don’t believe you want help right now, I’m begining to believe its pity you look for and rather than accept the help we yern to give you, you want us all to worry about a life you were all too eager to throw away! I’m sorry if that seems harsh but you obviously need some home truths! These people obviously love and care about u, you should be thankful you have anyone to support you. I can’t believe you haven’t even spoken, txt or rang me after all the worry and angst I felt knowing your life and children meant so little! You know where I am when you truly want help from, probably the one person who can get you back on that path to the light you are searching. I do love you even though you confuse the hell out of me x

Dotty….

Reading your blog, in particular the last few entires, has truly touched my heart and like everyone who has posted here, I am thrilled to discover that you are ok.

My reason for posting here is simply to tell you something…. you see I was sent a link to your blog by a person who has come to mean the world to me over the last few weeks. I won’t go into the details but suffice to say that the two of us have spent far too many days in dark places and finding each other has pushed us back into the light and shown us how good life can be. Being happy really is all it’s cracked up to be so chase it with all of your might and when you find it, grab hold and hang on with every ounce of strength you can muster.

So chin up dear Dotty….. we’re all here for you. xx

I’m so glad you are okay. Please email me anytime you want to talk about anything.

I am not furious with you. Nor do I hate you. I am just worried for you and want to help in any way I can.

Things are really bad right now, I know. Hard to believe but there will come a time when things will be so much better. Just don’t lose the hope, and do everything that you need to do to get better.

Don’t be scared. xxx

i hope you are ok sweetheart and that have read into this wrong and i am worrying for nothing xxxxxxx please tweet someone and let us know u are ok xxxxx

Furious, is what I am.

Everything passes dear, you just have to wait it out til you feel better. I hope you’re ok.

Hiya lady!

Not sure if you are the Dotty that used to be a member on my old site Goddess Mums but even if you are not I wanted to say I hope you are ok and please contact your friends they are all terrified something has happened to you.. everyone is

*hug*

Yzzy xx

Dotty please be ok. We love you.

Just get some sleep ok? Phone your husband, phone your friends, phone ANYONE right now and just take some time to breathe and know you are loved and NEEDED HERE.

You are so special and your light is giving warmth to so many people.

Just be ok, please?